Girls on fire!

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Here’s to all the girls:

who are too shy to speak.
who don’t get everything that they want.
who are hopeless romantics and the daydreamers.
who feel insecure walking among the crowd.
who are dealing with social anxiety.
who barely wake up in the morning after a long night of Instagram,music and reading.
who never cares what people are saying and does their own thing.
who wear little to no make up because they love to stay natural.
who’d rather spend the day with a book than people.
who have a little group of friends.
who eats whatever and whenever they like.
who don’t have tons of clothes and shoes because they don’t really had to leave the house to go to different places.
who barely care about dark circles under their eyes or not so perfect skin
who loves fiction and thinks it’s the most beautiful.
who have had their heart broken by a guy they never even dated.
who have never switched off their light.

Here’s to all the girls like me,who have no idea how they’ll survive it but every single time they do survive it.The girls who breathe through the fear,and walk through fire!
Stay beautiful and bubbly.Let not the world bring 
you down.Never doubt your fire, girl! Do your own thing because you’re doing just perfectly.

 

She didn’t just walk on a wild side, she lived there, dancing in the streets and setting fire to the sky. _J.iron word

 

A girl without a name.

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Sometimes I wonder if things truly never end, or if they keep on living inside us___killing us slowly.
Sometimes I wonder why good things end? Why do they end before they even began? Why do they end when you’re still not done writing the story?

 

I was here when you couldn’t see my affliction behind my smile.You asked me what happened whenever I looked drifted apart by my thoughts  and I always replied with a ‘Nothing’ Why you couldn’t see the truth behind those brown eyes?
I was here when I was drowning in silence,where you could save me but you were too busy.
I was here when at times I already felt dead but you could bring me back to live just by holding my hands.But simply you were not there.
I was here all this time standing alone, my scars speaking of my wars.
I gave everything to you.I think I was an extra for you.I always listened to your worries never let you faced those hardships alone.I was always there making you realize how strong you were.I simply was not only there in your good but bad times too.
But sadly you were not there when I needed you the most.That’s not fair I know but I forgive you.I tried to heal the wounds in your chest.I hope I did and I hope you’re feeling good now.I was here and I did my part.I found my peace in the infinity sky.I hope you’ve found yours too.Don’t live in regret it’s time you move on.

 

“You see we are humans and we need somebody once in a while.No matter how independent we are or how strong we are.We need somebody for a little while who can just hold your hand and say ‘It’s gonna be okay.Don’t worry I am here for you.’

Apology To My Youth.

When she finally stopped running from it,she saw how beautiful the truth really could be.
         __Jessica Michelle

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I accepted every part of it.The truth that laid within me.I feel sorry that it took me years to figure out.I was neglecting every part that was chained with me but not anymore.

 

To my younger self,
I’m sorry for comparing you with others,I’m sorry at times I felt you weren’t enough.I’m sorry for not believing in you.I’m sorry you had to be embarrassed just because I was shy.I’m sorry for not standing up for you.I’m sorry that I allowed you to be afraid of the things that never mattered.I’m sorry that I let you believe that your worth was determined by the number of friends you had or how popular you were and by the grades you received on your report card.

 

I feel bad because I didn’t encouraged you.I kept you concealed in the dark.I’m sorry I prevented you from living boldly and openly.I’m sorry I never told you how beautiful you looked in the mirror, every time when you smiled, the world seemed to glow.I’m sorry I never told you that you were complete, that there was nothing you could change about yourself.You were who you were.

 

I am sorry I wasn’t there to motivate you when you were stressing over your exams.I am sorry I was not there whispering soothing words when you couldn’t stop crying.You were so depressed that you wanted everything to end.I’m sorry I was not strong enough to hold you.Those times when you let your mind win over you and it was so rigid to even get up.
But you still did it.You fall,you got up with triumph.You did it because you never stopped having faith.You never let that wee light of hope fade away.You survived successfully and for that I’m so proud of you!

 

I do hope that you comprehend that I was trying harder;that I never stopped trying.I always had faith in you.Do know that now it won’t be like before.I promise I will do my best to take care of you.I hope you know that I never intentionally put you down or tried to hurt you.Despite how may I have treated you,you still have lived a pleasing and courageous life this far.You have been a survivor.No matter what mistakes I made,I will always look back on your life with nothing but fondness and pride.But from today on I promise I will support you,love you,care for you.We will finally be a strong team that no one will break.
From today on I will be by your side.I will be your friend.I,now, know the truth and If ever the weight of the world tries to put you down I will be there to lift you up again.Just know that you are precious.

 

Continue to Do It.

Continue to love even when your heart is broken.
Continue to spread kindness even when you’re not getting it.
Continue to share your heart with others even it’s broken into wee pieces.
Continue to share smiles and cheers even when you’re witnessing pain.
Continue to trust people even when it has been broken a thousandth time.

Because Life is not for wasting.It is for living and spreading love,kindness,and tranquil.

And I know one thing for sure that broken people are the strongest people
I know.

Summer Love

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I see her in cool shades

having some tan on the beach.

A sparkling blue sea,

I see him surfing on frothy waves.

The little kids building their dream sand castles,

Schools out and summer’s in.

Party nights blaring all the city

Water fights having everybody hell crazy

I see her losing herself  to the sounds,

of her favorite band .

Feeling the breeze on her face,

Exploring scenic country paths.

Laying on a rooftop all day,

cooling with an ice cream in hand,

The stars burning extravagantly all night.

I see her in the park with a book,

Chirping birds and scorching air flowing was all it took

to bring a smile on her face.

I see him looking at the bright white sky,

where pearly clouds have it all covered.

A season where we learn how to break the rules

Ignoring your head and following your heart

It’s just the start here

Everything’s so clear

Let’s give summer a big fat cheer!

 

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THIS SUMMER: do something new,something you’ve never done.Something you were always scared of.This summer act crazy and don’t care about what people will think.This summer don’t worry if you’re single,that’s what friends are for,right?This summer set a new goal that you always wanted to achieve.This summer live each day as it is your last.Don’t stress over your body, you’re beautiful just the way you are.Breathe in the ocean and live it without regrets.Go out there leave your phone for sometime and just focus on living in the moments and making memories that you could cherish forever.

Mental Health Awareness.

Give yourself some credit. You’ve come pretty far.

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Mental health is very important at every stage of life.It affects your behavior,thinking and how you feel.May is the mental health awareness month.There is no better time to spread awareness of mental health.Mental health is important as much as physical health.Remember that.

 

To anyone suffering from mental illness you are the mountain nobody can shake.You’re stronger because nothing is more terrifying than battling with your own mind everyday.
Your illness does not define you.Your strength and courage does.

 

Depression isn’t pretty but having depression doesn’t make you ugly.
Anxiety is a burden but having anxiety doesn’t make you a burden.
You aren’t your problems.You deserve respect and patience.
This is a fight you can win.Don’t give up.

 

When your bone is broken you don’t keep walking with it, you treat it.Going to a counsellor/therapist when you’re feeling down should be as going to the doctor when you have a bad cold.Why there is such a stigma around mental health? You don’t have to be ashamed or embarrassed because most people have no idea what battle your are fighting.They don’t comprehend.So just keep hanging in there.

 

Also I want to add is sadness isn’t depression.It’s like you’re drowning and you can’t get out of it.It’s like falling in dark from a height, realizing there is no end.It’s the screams inside your head.It takes lives! 
Stress isn’t anxiety.Thoughts aren’t schizophrenia.A lot of people need to understand the severity of mental illness.

 

Here are some points that I’ve to share with you all, resolve to improve your mental health.There are such points which I have to work on myself too.We all can do this together.We all know how important it is to take care of ourselves nothing is more crucial than our health.

  • Get enough sleep.
  • Pay attention to your feelings.
  • Spend some time in nature
  • Pursue a hobby.
  • Laugh often.
  • Grieve your losses.
  • Accept yourself, imperfections and all.
  • Ask for help from someone who you trust.
  • Practice gratitude daily.
  • Pray at least two times. (In the morning and before sleep)
  • Surround yourself with positive people.
  • Exercise
  • Remember it’s healthy to say “no” sometimes.
  • Forgive yourself when you screw up.
  • See a therapist.
  • Breathe
  • Get to know yourself.

 

Sometimes it’s okay if the only thing you did today was breathe. 

 

Do share your opinions.I would love to hear them. 🙂

20 things about me.

Hey beautiful people! How’re you? I wish you all a great month ahead.And also wishing you a wonderful week!

I thought if anyone want to know about me a little bit.So here are 20 things about me.

 

  1. I am a college student.
  2. I make most of my present moment.
  3. Half of the time I’m not sure about anything.
  4. I walk in the line between reality and fantasy.
  5. I have this crazy love for flowers.
  6. My favorite book series is Harry Potter.
  7. I am a Gemini.
  8. I would rather hear the painful truth then hearing a lie.
  9. I always look forward to new friendships.
  10. I am a very good listener.
  11. My dream place is Paris.
  12. Psychology and Literature are my all time favorite subjects.
  13. The thing that attracts me the most in a person is his/her smile.
  14. I am a very shy person.
  15. I have a fear of public speaking.
  16. I am not a big fan of shopping.
  17. My sport interests are Football and cricket. 
  18. I have a small circle of friends but are the best.
  19. I don’t like crowded places.
  20. I appreciate my life even though it took me some time to realize that.

It begins With You.

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First of all, I want to say to all the people out there dealing with life’s worst situations,hold on.You’re stronger than you know and you deserve to be jovial and you have a beautiful heart and soul.No one is like you and you are your own hero.

Kindness takes a lot of courage and kind words costs you nothing.This world which is nasty and dishonest and shows you sinister realities,there, kindness can give hope to survive.Hope to live and to see all the beauties that once covered with gloom.It’s just need a light and that light could be your kindness.

Be kind.Think before you speak because words can be dangerous. You don’t know what someone is going through and you’ll never know there story even when that person is your own best friend. You won’t know when you’re just joking about her weight and the next thing she will do is to starve herself to death.You are making fun of his low grades and you don’t even realize how hard it was for him to just even get out of his bed.How you never noticed that he was trembling.
You never know that your words could be like a burden to them that they carry on their shoulders for forever and that would be so distressing.You never can tell if a person is dealing with anxiety.The nights are always disturbed.It’s crucial to be kind with each and everyone. 

A single word can make a heart open but also a single word can obliterate everything.Words have power and you know once it’s out of the mouth you can’t take it back.What’s done is done.Sometimes words do sabotage a life.

Kindness is a language that is comprehend beyond the human boundaries.An act of kindness never goes futile.Please be kind to everyone and it will reflect in your and his behavior.Being kind to others instills a positive feeling and makes this world a better place to live.Even nature has also it’s own ways of expressing gratitude and kindness.

Kindness is taught by every religion but it is not only a religious virtue.But it can be very well adjusted in all spheres of life.
I personally believe that ‘What goes around comes around’.So, just be kind and polite and the same will come back to you.Also being kind to self is equally important as being kind to others.Don’t be harsh on yourself and give space to the trivial mistakes in life.

 

“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and a blind can see.”

Mark Twain

Save the Day.

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Don’t depend on people.Don’t make them the reason of your happiness.Because in the end when you need them the most they won’t be there for you.People tend to let you down, even your own best friend.Don’t ever let the weight of the world get to you because I know you’re much stronger than you think.
You can’t fall apart and go back destroying yourself because unlike last time you have no one else but your own self to save.You’re the only one who can save the day.
When it’s 3 am and you’re depressed, tears never seem to stop.You’re screaming to the moon about how life is so unfair,in that very moment who else is going to be there for you? When you’re screaming at the top of your lungs about how everything hurts so much and there is nothing that could numb your pain,where you just don’t want to understand or feel nothing,and you feel so hopeless and it’s difficult to breathe, who else is going to be there for you? No one.Just you.It’s going to get better, I promise.I know promises are meant to be broken and sometimes it’s impossible to keep that promise but this is something I’m truly sure of.
Everything is going to be okay.Not all days are filled with wrath of hurricanes some days are like rainbow, bright and colorful! You just have to negotiate over this hard part.Someday you’ll be living carefree and away from all the pain.A survivor in a war game.Someday you’ll be living a life of your dreams.One day you will be happy alone and you won’t need anybody.You will be happy and in love with your own company.

 

Let the light and the universe shine for you.

 

She walks with the weight of the world on her shoulders,

And she makes it look like a pair of wings.

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Humanity: a choice to make.

 

A hero can fail sometimes.
An optimist can lose all hope.
The light can fade and become darkness.
An innocent can change and feel repentant.
The powerful can be impotent.
A child can be a victim.
A hunter can be hunted.
The brave can be terrified.
The caring can be malicious.
A genuine can lose their mind.
A good can reveal his bad side.
A kindhearted can be cold-hearted.
But a human can save it all by humanity.

 

A story is not always one sided.Life can throw anything on you when you least expect it.You never know what role you’ll be playing next.But even on worst days and difficult paths I would never want to lose my humanity.I can let myself down but not my soul.I can’t forget who I am.I hope people would comprehend we are all together in this war and to conquer it we need each other.War is a defeat for humanity.
We are not perfect human beings nor do we have to pretend to be, but it is necessary for us to be a better version of ourselves we can be.
We are humans and that has been given.But keeping our humanity is a choice we have to make.